Sleep Optimized

Alexandra Price

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Marketing director, San Francisco. Thirty-nine. I fell asleep during a client presentation in March.

Not a slight drift -- an actual head-drop-startled-awake moment, in a conference room with eight people, mid-sentence during a campaign debrief. I went back to my desk afterward and sat there for about ten minutes. That was the moment I stopped being able to call the sleep situation manageable.

I had been running on four to five hours for most of my thirties. Long hours are part of the job in marketing -- quarterly launches, time zone calls at 7 AM, Slack threads that expect responses by 9 PM because someone in London needs an answer. I had convinced myself this was what the work required. My body disagreed, and the conference room was how it said so.

The six months after that were a genuine overhaul. I tracked everything in a notes app: what I tried, when I took it, how long it took to fall asleep (rough estimate), how many times I woke up, how the next morning felt on a scale. I tried magnesium combinations that did nothing I could measure. I tried a two-week no-alcohol experiment that helped more than expected. I tried melatonin in varying doses and discovered the dose actually mattered -- which sounds obvious and is not how I was doing it. I tried a wind-down routine I kept for three weeks and then abandoned during a product launch and had to rebuild from scratch. That one taught me more about what I actually needed than anything else.

Some things worked. Some worked conditionally (only if I also did the other thing, only during low-stress weeks). Some worked once and then stopped. I documented all of it.

Still working 50-hour weeks. Still checking email before bed more than I should. Sleeping dramatically better than I was a year ago. My therapist says progress, not perfection. She is usually right.

Not a doctor. Not a sleep coach. Not a wellness person in any professional sense. Just a marketing director who got tired of being tired and started paying attention to what actually moved the needle.

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